Sunday, October 24, 2010

Question was...
Truth Be Told,
During the last few years I have been dating this guy, now I'm almost completely sure that he is the one for me. Things have been happening lately that aren't in the same intrest as me... my boyfriend has been drinkin quite a bit and it seems to make us fight. truth be told, I dont know what to do because I want to be with him forever and I dont know how to stop this act... ?

My Thoughts...
Well you can't and won't ever be able to control what other people do but you can set an example for them... You can show him what you think is right and just hope that he will come around.  If you honestly think that he is the one than I would talk to him about these concerns that you are having... Communication really is the key to every successful relationship!!

Friday, October 22, 2010

Question was...
Truth Be Told,
On the subject of love: I'm in love with my best friend. I think about her every day and only want to be with her. but I'm afraid she doesnt feel the same. I listen to her complain about her boy problems and I know I could make her happier and treat her better than any other guy she's dated. I just dont know if she sees me in that way. what would you do in my situation, sincerely, my best friend's (and hopefully my) wedding

My Thoughts...
Loving your best friend is not something that is rare but is something that is hard to deal with... personally if I was in this situation I would try talking to her.  You never know what her feelings are until you have asked.  She could end up feeling the exact same way but she is just scared to tell you in case you didn't feel the same and it could potentially ruin the friendship.  But if you both handle the conversation on a mature level then you both should be able to get your feelings out and still maintain your friendship! If it doesn't work out then there is someone better out there for you!! Good Luck and let me know how it goes!! Everyone deserves the best and you shouldn't settle for less!!

Is there such thing as love!?

Question Was...
Truth Be Told,
I personally struggle with problems with love. I honestly dont believe it exists. every relationship I've had, there's been something lagging. no spark, nothing. I get bored. I've dated alot of great guys and its hard to believe that I just havent met the ONE yet. your thoughts?

My Thoughts...
Well for starters every single person is different in there own way so no matter who you date they will all be different.  That being said if the guys you have previously dated don't have the "WOW" factor that keeps you wanting more then he doesn't have all of the qualities you are longing for... you just need to give it time.  You will find the person that withholds everything you have ever wanted and it will be worth the wait!!

Hello Everyone!

We all have problems and concerns in life that we wish we had someone to talk too, well I am here to help you out the best I can!! I am going to give advice about subjects I think can apply to many people but I also want to hear your input!! Post any problems or concerns you want my advice for! I will get back to you with an answer as soon as I can!! Thanks everyone!! Have a great Day!!