To the Concerned One

Question was...
hi. i found your blog through a friends blog. and first i want you to know that i really appreciate what you are doing. i hope you can answer this. it is pretty complicated. i am in love with my boyfriend. and i dont know if you are a religious person at all, but he revealed to me last week a lot of his past. we were planning on getting married in june. but he told me a lot of things like he isn't a virgin anymore, he did drugs, and he comes from an abusive family. everything seems to be falling apart. i am trying my hardest to not be judgmental, and i don't think i am. my love for him has not changed one bit. but do i continue loving him and plan on marrying him forever? Or what do i do? it's harder to handle than ic an tell you. and sorry if posted this in the wrong area. i looked for an email but couldnt find one.
thanks again,
concerned.
My Thoughts....
Well first off I want to start out by saying I appreciate what you said about what I am trying to do! I just hope I can help! Now to your question, love is HARD to find and once you have it I think you you need to be really careful about what you do with it.  If finding out all of these things about his past is a deal breaker for you then you have to figure out how to walk away because in the long run you don't want to settle for less than you deserve.  For me when I get married it will be for eternity! Now you also have to remember that people make mistakes, no one is perfect and we all have a past that we may or may not be PROUD of.  Him telling you all of these things shows that he trusts you enough to share his deepest secrets and wants to share his entire life with you! That is something that can be very rare! If you still love him as much as you did before DON"T take that love for grantid! You never know when the day will come that you may not have it anymore and you don't want to be living with regrets.  Trust in your instincts! They know best!! :) I hope this helped at least just a little! Let me know how it goes!
Yours truely,
Truth Be Told

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Question Was...
Alright, truth be told! I’m the “concerned one.” My boyfriend and I are very serious. However, his family and my family are completely opposite. IT doesn’t seem like that big of a deal, but it really is!! It’s been rough because his family is so proper and my family is…not! We’re crazy. It’s so hard when some of my family thinks he’s “not good for me,” and some of his family thinks the same!! IT makes me SO SAD. We’ll get in fights about it and everything, and family is soo important to both of us. It causes fights, and it’s getting really frustrating considering some of his family doesn’t like me and some of my family doesn’t like him. It’s causing lots of stress ☹
Thanks for your help!!
-Concerned one
My Thoughts...
Well concerned one, How much of an influence is your family making on your relationship? If in the end you aren't going to let family determine the outcome of your relationship then there isn't any reason to stress over it.  You two know what is best for eachother more than anyone else does.  Family is extremely important but once they realize that there influence isn't going to change your opinion and if they can see that you are both really happy with eachother I honestly think that in the long run they will back off! Let your families disagreements make you closer as a couple, not tear you apart! I hope this helped!
Yours truely, Truth Be Told