Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Question Was...
Alright, truth be told! I’m the “concerned one.” My boyfriend and I are very serious. However, his family and my family are completely opposite. IT doesn’t seem like that big of a deal, but it really is!! It’s been rough because his family is so proper and my family is…not! We’re crazy. It’s so hard when some of my family thinks he’s “not good for me,” and some of his family thinks the same!! IT makes me SO SAD. We’ll get in fights about it and everything, and family is soo important to both of us. It causes fights, and it’s getting really frustrating considering some of his family doesn’t like me and some of my family doesn’t like him. It’s causing lots of stress ☹
Thanks for your help!!
-Concerned one

My Thoughts...
Well concerned one, How much of an influence is your family making on your relationship? If in the end you aren't going to let family determine the outcome of your relationship then there isn't any reason to stress over it.  You two know what is best for eachother more than anyone else does.  Family is extremely important but once they realize that there influence isn't going to change your opinion and if they can see that you are both really happy with eachother I honestly think that in the long run they will back off! Let your families disagreements make you closer as a couple, not tear you apart! I hope this helped!
Yours truely, Truth Be Told

1 comment:

  1. of course it helped. thanks girl (:
    i needed a wake up call or something! hahaha

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