To the Concerned One

Question was...
hi. i found your blog through a friends blog. and first i want you to know that i really appreciate what you are doing. i hope you can answer this. it is pretty complicated. i am in love with my boyfriend. and i dont know if you are a religious person at all, but he revealed to me last week a lot of his past. we were planning on getting married in june. but he told me a lot of things like he isn't a virgin anymore, he did drugs, and he comes from an abusive family. everything seems to be falling apart. i am trying my hardest to not be judgmental, and i don't think i am. my love for him has not changed one bit. but do i continue loving him and plan on marrying him forever? Or what do i do? it's harder to handle than ic an tell you. and sorry if posted this in the wrong area. i looked for an email but couldnt find one.
thanks again,
concerned.
My Thoughts....
Well first off I want to start out by saying I appreciate what you said about what I am trying to do! I just hope I can help! Now to your question, love is HARD to find and once you have it I think you you need to be really careful about what you do with it.  If finding out all of these things about his past is a deal breaker for you then you have to figure out how to walk away because in the long run you don't want to settle for less than you deserve.  For me when I get married it will be for eternity! Now you also have to remember that people make mistakes, no one is perfect and we all have a past that we may or may not be PROUD of.  Him telling you all of these things shows that he trusts you enough to share his deepest secrets and wants to share his entire life with you! That is something that can be very rare! If you still love him as much as you did before DON"T take that love for grantid! You never know when the day will come that you may not have it anymore and you don't want to be living with regrets.  Trust in your instincts! They know best!! :) I hope this helped at least just a little! Let me know how it goes!
Yours truely,
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